Метка: Psychotherapy
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Who's really unhappy with your body?
If you drive in Yandex two queries: "how to lose weight" and "how to have an orgasm", it turns out that the second looking at 26 times. The appearance of the body excites people more than the fun of it. Feminists call this objectification of women (this is when women influenced by upbringing and pressure…
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Compensate for the lack of a father
When I started to post on his page ideal sire messages under the tag #твой_внутренний_папа, I met a lot of misunderstanding. "Why is that?" "What, mom can not give it all?" "As I have with my dad, everything is fine." "This should give the husband rather than Pope" And have had a lot of…
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When you're as a red rag for the environment
Sometimes other react to something in the US as the red rag: demonstrate against us irritation, fear, increased interest. Strong and extramental predominantly feelings cause surrounding desire to comment on or ridicule, hang tag, set evaluation. In the US, this quality is not bad in itself. However, thanks to the bullfighting in childhood we…
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Psychosomatics: push off from the bottom
Disease-bottom, from which we start. And do it only if you scary. Then we can only grow: take responsibility, recognize the feelings, repressed desires. Until then, we're playing a game: will obstinately and childish demand attention/relaxing/compassion/acceptance through an illness until she will recall the death of individually with terrible symptoms. I cough scares,…
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Tales about the power of 2
Power locked fault For the first time, the child begins to feel his personal power during the period from 2 to 4 years. In these years he throws items, "who runs forward, trying to lift heavy bags" help my mother "as well as he has shown stubbornness, loud screams, fights, bite-tries and proves, explores its…